My ideal marriage

so what is the ideal marriage i have in mind?
What is the husband role?
What is the wife role?

To put it in the navy term, to me..
Marriage must comes with a VISION.
And the VISION must be common between the husband(the attacker) and the wife(the base protector).

For example:
VISION: To build a Godly family and live an abundance life, by overcoming storms in life, perseverance and keep focusing and pressing on.
The attacker:
-provide financial needs
-provide protection
-show example to his next generation
-support his partner

the base protector:
-build a comfortable home
-support the attacker
-take care of next generation
-domestic support
-if needed, might need to go out and help the attacker

and to put in the Organization term:
It's almost the same.
now Husband= the Director
Wife= the Co-partner

Together, they build the organization and focus on the vision they set.
Discuss problems whenever things arise, trying to sort things out logically. Put away emotional hurts but focus on issue.

mmm...... I pray that all will have the kind of mindset/strength to build a family, just as the same effort we put in building up our career. Finding the balance between. :)

Focus on Vision, holding onto Commitment, pressing on and finish the Race. :)