Sunday, December 30, 2007

Boy Meets Girl

I was reading this book yesterday, by Joshua Harris.
His 2nd book on dating i guess, his first book was "I Kissed Dating Goodbye".

Only on 1st Chapter and i guess, 1 thing i learned.
Before we even consider a relationship, ask yourself whether are you ready for marriage.
I guess, i agreed that relationship should start with a marriage in mind.

It also pictured relationship suppose to be like course meals. And we need to enjoy each course slowly and patiently. This is call having Wisdom in relationship.
We observed the character of a person, in group, in church, in his down time, etc.
And we must be cautious on what we shared to the person.
Sharing deeper things (past relationship, etc) to another person when we do not really know him create a false sense of closeness which then rush the relationship into another level when it is not having the right foundation.

It's like putting all the course meals in a blending machine and blend them all and drink with straw! YUCKSSSSSSSSSSSs!!!!!!!!!

I guess this is a great book that i will take my time continue reading. ;)

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