8 types of relationships that won't work

1.) You care more about your partner than he/she care about you.
-He/she doesn't seem to be excited about the relationship. He/she seems to be perfectly fine without you.
-A healthy relationship.. partners take turns to be the pursuer and the one being pursued. It needs a balance.

2.) You are in love with your partner's potential
-you are in love with what you hope he will become... he becomes your project.
-ask yourself this question.. "would i be willing to spend my life with him if he never change from the way he is right now? will i still in love iwth him 20years from now?"

3.) You are on a rescue mission
do you feel responsible to help your partner?
Do you afraid that when you leave.. the person's life will fall apart?You are rescue holic.
They want to be the savior. You find someone fragile.. sad.. etc.. and you try to help her.. when she feel grateful, you feel noble.
-mistake sympathy for love…. There's no need to be a savior.
The person you choose to love, must be someone that you can respect and proud with.

4.) You look up to your partner as a role model
Student fall in love with professor..
Worker fall in love with boss..
This type of relationship cannot work. It's not equal.. u ll look up all the time.. he ll look down all the time.
Usually, ppl of this kind ve low self esteem. They can't love themselves.
"you shall love ur neighbour as you love urself".. how can u love somebody if you don't love yourself?
5.) You are infatuated with your partner for external's reason
big round eyes.. he play guitar.. dancing.. if that person doesn't have that big round eye.. or the gorgeous hair.. or the great voice.. will I still in love with him?
Charm is deceitful, beauty is fleeting…….

6.) You and your partner are trench buddy
Drawn together at work for long hour.. and suddenly, you feel that you are in love..

7.) You choose a partner in order to be rebellious
ur parents emphasize discipline.. all the gf u befriend wth are total slot.
Your parents are strict.. u brought home a samseng..
If u ve a patent to choose a partner that upset the family.. beware of rebelliousness.
8.) Your partner is unavailable
He/she is available. Available= free to be in a relationship with you, alone, single, not sleeping with other, not engaged, not married…… when you get into a relationship with someone who is already in a relationship.. you are accepting left over… you deserve much much better.