Great Article

Read this from Adrian's blog...
http://adrian_wee.blogs.friendster.com/career/2007/01/the_automatic_m.html

let me answer some of those questions... ahem...... Let's seee........

I suggest writing your (honest) answers to the following questions in a new journal for the new year:

What makes you happy at work?
-errr... not so happy with current work..

What makes you happy at home?
-A.) The home with my family?-- spend time with mummy n daddy, trying to understand them.. mummy cook nice food..very sayang me...
-b.) At gambier, rented home--> got personal time, everything also got punya house.. big bed, nice housemates, nice sofa, refrigerator..

What makes you happy with your friends and family?
-a.) Friends--> they cares about me, they are fun loving people, many different types of people i met, also still discovering and found them interesting... :D
-b.) Family- sudah jawab in question above..

What makes you happy when you're by yourself?
-got personal time can do all these...
- i love strength training..i eat..i cook, i draw, i make things for people.. i think of some friends, i laugh at some fun people, i lie on bed, i read, i zzz, i online, i pray, i write journal, i tengok gambar, i update blog...


What do you love to do?
-love to mix around with people... crazy type one...... daring type.. siao one..
-love to eat.. tapi takut gemuk...... kekekekee
-love to move around, travelling with fun loving people. people who loves to snap photos also and can joke around..
-love to do things that use a lot of energy...
-love to camping..swimming, go to beach..
-love to cook ..
-love to test things i never test before.....
-love to draw and be creative..
-love to go backpack with people who also crazy one.. can play one..just like me...
-love to attend PCC...
-love to think of some people.. :P
-love to go have a nice food and enjoy the environment... Mario is a great placE!
-love to jet ski..
-love to manja manja with people...
-love to bully ppl and see ppl bully me also.. wahahhaa..
-love to share ideas with people..
-love to talk and share things to people..
-love to be appreciated.. and sharing advises..
many lorrrr

What would you do with your life today if you weren't afraid of failure?
-Failure? errr.. failure? err... failure= die when i do it?..if yes... then i want to jet ski to the maximum speed....... close eyes.... Bungee jump....... Jump down from aeroplane.. Surfing at Bali....... Catch the sharks........ race car...
-failure= grow fat?... if yes.. then i want to eat as much as i could..... hahahahaha...
-Failure= people will reject me?...... then i want to express my love to many many people that i also love a lot......and always always be with them....
-failure= break up again?.. then i wish to find someone that i can love like crazy and love me the same way back.... wahahaha~
many........

What's not working in your life?
- is relationship with loved one supposed to be one part of my life?--> then this one not yet working... hahahaa


What are you currently doing that prevents you from experiencing joy?
-thinking too much sometimes... Worry about how people viewed me sometimes.. then have to control control cannot let go of all craziness......

What's working in your life?
-friendships, family relationships, church, ministries....

Who's not working in your life?
- some abusive friends... who don't really appreciate me.. who try to say destructive words everytime and hurt me... :(

Who in your life is subtracting value from and adding misery to it?
-some close friend that suddenly away from my life..dunno Y..

Can you fix any of these relationships, or should you let them go from your life?
-think i cannot fix it.. just let it be first...
- let go?? ohh.. some bad relationships already gone with 2006 in PCC the other day.. kekekee

What relationships are working in your life?
-friendships with cell group members
-friendships with church members
-family relationships with parents, relatives
-friendships with company friends
-friendships.. many many other friends..navy, schoolmates, diving friends, activity friends, .....etc etc..

If we were getting together one year from today, what would have to happen for you to be able to tell me that you now have more joy in your life?
- Fullfilled all my 2007 resolutions.. hahahaa.. secret.. :P

What's the single most important thing you've learned about yourself as a result of answering these questions?
- need to live life to the fullest......be honest.. JUST DO IT!!!!!!

YESSS!!!